Mental health matters – even in childhood.
But when it comes to child psychology, outdated beliefs and unspoken taboos still prevent many families from accessing the support they need.
At Kites Children’s Therapy, we see firsthand the incredible progress children can make when given the right tools and emotional support. It’s time to break down the stigma and speak openly about the truth: supporting your child’s mental health is not only normal – it’s essential.
Here are four common taboos we hear about child Psychology, and the truth behind them.
Taboo #1: Kids are too young to understand their emotions
Children might not always have the words to explain how they’re feeling – but that doesn’t mean they aren’t feeling deeply.
Even toddlers experience frustration, sadness, anxiety, and fear. These big feelings can be overwhelming, especially when a child hasn’t yet developed the language or skills to express them.
Child psychology helps children make sense of what’s going on inside. Through age-appropriate strategies like play-based therapy, visual tools, and guided conversations, psychologists support children in identifying and managing emotions. Teaching emotional awareness early builds resilience, confidence, and lifelong coping strategies.
Taboo #2: Children will outgrow their problems
It’s a common misconception that children will simply “grow out of” emotional or behavioural challenges. While it’s true that kids go through many phases, not every struggle is just a passing stage. Some difficulties need extra support to prevent them from becoming more serious down the track.
Untreated challenges can affect how a child performs at school, forms relationships, and sees themselves. Early support from a child psychologist doesn’t just address surface behaviours; it helps uncover and support the root causes in a safe, compassionate space. When children receive help early, they’re more likely to thrive emotionally, socially, and academically.
Taboo #3: Good parenting means your child won’t need help
Asking for help is a sign of strength – not failure.
One of the most harmful myths in children’s mental health is that needing support reflects poorly on parenting. In reality, even the most nurturing and engaged parents may face challenges they weren’t expecting, and that’s totally okay.
Working with a child psychologist isn’t about replacing a parent’s role, it’s about teaming up with professionals who can offer strategies, insights, and support tailored to your child’s needs. Great parenting includes knowing when to lean on others.
Taboo #4: Only children with serious issues see a psychologist
The truth is, Children’s psychology is for everyone – not just for crisis.
This is one of the most common misconceptions we hear. In truth, many families seek children’s therapy for everyday challenges: school pressure, sibling rivalry, confidence issues, changes at home, or difficulty adjusting to new situations.
Child counselling is a safe space where children can explore their feelings, ask questions, and build emotional skills. Just like adults, kids benefit from having someone neutral to talk to — especially when emotions feel overwhelming or confusing.
Final Thoughts: It’s Time to Normalise Support
Children shouldn’t have to “tough it out” when it comes to mental health. Early, compassionate support helps them build the skills they need to thrive – now and into the future.
At Kites Childrens Therapy, our team of Psychologists and Therapists offer a range of children’s therapy services, including Psychology, designed to support emotional growth in a safe, engaging environment.
📞 Reach out today to speak with our friendly team or learn more about how we can support your child’s mental health journey.